A few months ago I wrote a post about turning 50. I said I was still that wild and crazy young kid inside this 50 year old man. My friend Brad Feld seems to been having his own little mid-life thing going on as well. Brad turned 45 recently and came to the realization that he is probably in the 2nd half of his life now.
Since then Brad has done a lot of reading and thinking on how best to make sure that he enjoys an active 2nd half and doesn’t go on a straight descent to old age and then death. Brad has great graphs for how he wants to keep physically fit over the long haul to 85 and beyond.

I read Brad’s posts and had even sent him a private note a few weeks back. Generally I felt his pain and anguish, as well as the desire to make the best of it. I guess we all go through it.
Today though I was listening to a concert I recorded this past weekend on DirectTV. It was a concert by Yes from about 5 or 7 years ago. I love Yes. I have probably seen them perform live at least a dozen times over the years, maybe even more. While listening to them play “And You and I” and then “Seen All Good People” I thought back to when I first saw them play those songs live. It was around 1976/77 in Madison Square Garden. At that time both of those songs were already older songs from older Yes albums. They are timeless and still great today.
Watching Yes perform those songs I started thinking about how they felt performing them. They wrote and first did those songs probably 40 years ago! In many ways most of their best songs are 30 to 40 years old. Here they were now approaching or in their 60’s, playing the same songs they played in their 20’s.
Though they are still performing, the fact is their greatest songs came to them very early in life. Since then they have tried to recapture that peak, while performing and living off of that work product.
That was the Eureka moment for me. Brad it is not that the glass if half full and you only have half of your life left. It is what you make with that time. It is more than how your physical condition fits on some graph.
God willing when you are 80 and you look back over the years, what did you accomplish when you were 45 to 80. Is it just that you managed to stay in good shape? What did you do to make the world a better place? Family and friends, what did you to do influence them? What did you put in that half empty glass besides calories and working out is what matters. What is your legacy?
Brad you more than I with the resources you have available have the opportunity to go do some special things with this half of your life. Don’t reflect back like Yes and realize that your greatest songs were written in your youth.
Life is a book waiting to be written. The first chapters are just the beginning, the book doesn’t get good until the middle and gets better as it goes. Go out and write the best chapters of your book. More than graphs and charts that will show the true worth of your life.
I my friend am going to take my own advice and try to do the same. Happy Birthday Brad, looking forward to discussing this with you in about 35 years as we play tennis down here in Florida!